The city is a monster which eats downcast persons.
There are many other places to console yourself. If you want to gather strength and prepare for your future, go to those places and stay away from the city.
It is too dangerous to visit there when you feel down. The city will take away your confidence and make you devastated. The monster has no mercy. You will be completely deflated.
You may wonder, then, why so many people like to go to the city. Well, the secret is that you can also transform the monster into Lady Luck. If you are highly motivated, active on your convictions, and have a strong will, the city will definitely rain you all the munificent gifts – fresh ideas, valuable connections, and everything you need for success.
So, you have to ask yourself first; Are you ready to go to the city?